Comments on: It’s a Brain Thing: Social Phobia: Part 1

By: crowley201

crowley201 — Mon, 06 Jul 2009 12:59:45 +0000

You know, I use to be obese when I was younger and I believe that was mainly the reason why I suffer social axiety disorder. Now, I’m not as fat as I use to be and I do feel more comforable around people or in public. Though I still have trouble socializing. I mean, I’ve been homebound for like a year and a half since i’m not in school or working or find friends to hang out with and…………………..not fun. lol

By: professorbuglefarts1

professorbuglefarts1 — Mon, 06 Jul 2009 05:08:35 +0000

Crikey, looks like there’s a shitload of people with social phobia. I can empathize…
Having survived a catastrophically brutal and violent childhood, I spent every moment figuring out ways to avoid social situations, pretended to bend down to tie my shoelaces (to avoid people), made up diseases and injuries, anything to avoid people-all the while handling some of the world’s deadliest animals completely without fear…Now that I’ve virtually beaten it, I’ll upload vids next week to help out…

By: joe6panther6

joe6panther6 — Fri, 03 Jul 2009 05:45:11 +0000

I’m only my true self when I’m in front of the computer. Everything I do on here reflects who I really am. In the outside world, I just clam up. I can’t be myself at all. Too much fear.. Like it’s strangling me from living.

And drinking only helps the nerves. I’m no more social with the booze than without it.

By: travludlow

travludlow — Thu, 02 Jul 2009 06:28:56 +0000

most may think you just get social phobia around people you dont know but bloody hell i get this happen around my own family, so what does that tell ya !!

By: mynycontact

mynycontact — Wed, 01 Jul 2009 12:28:54 +0000

This is incorrect. You don’t solve problems by running away from them. You must confront the issue.

The objective is to associate new feelings to the experience which cause the anxiety.

One way is using EFT ( Emotional Freedom Technique )

It re programs the sub conscious! You can’t delete or change the images in your brain once it’s there. However, you can change the feelings.

That is the key to eradicating all anxiety.

By: inapickle12

inapickle12 — Mon, 29 Jun 2009 17:38:08 +0000

It’s nice to know you have the same problem with family, I tought I was alone here…Mine goes so sever that I can’t even use a real id on the internet, I hide behind posting id’s and am so careful to what information I ever write..it’s kinda like I am convinced someone will read what I write and say “hey that’s so and so, I know who he/she is”
Miserable existence in a lot of ways

By: inapickle12

inapickle12 — Fri, 26 Jun 2009 22:39:13 +0000

All the drink does for me is numb the whole problem..It’s the only form of medication that has ever helped in anyway and made it bareable…I have seen councillors and I don’t trust them one bit, I’m convinced they judge me too..
My wife/husband is the only person I trust and that has took a few years, still now I sometimes go totally insecure and lose that trust, but I tell her/him when this happens..
I guess trusting just one person enough is the key to some of this problem

By: Mason5666

Mason5666 — Wed, 24 Jun 2009 07:59:10 +0000

I can’t take it anymore. This is no laughing matter, this is real. I hate it so much. I can’t talk to anyone about it because it’s too complicated. Nobody I know understands.

By: openingman

openingman — Mon, 22 Jun 2009 03:43:11 +0000

i have 1 thing to say we are not computers we cant copy paste delete *** and i thought your subconcious brain is something you cant acees while in conciousness

By: mynycontact

mynycontact — Sat, 20 Jun 2009 13:57:42 +0000

Our brain is the most advanced computer in existance. Whomever created us & put us here is a computer genius. You can copy paste delete & overwrite files with the proper techniques. Long term memory is the same thing as
EEPROM. Erasable Electrical Programmable Memory.

For you to understand this you would have to be a computer geek. The Matrix is very real. You would begin to grasp this when you learn more about computers & programming.

Every programming language is the same. All Math!